My journey at Florida State has been one with many opportunities, challenges, and successes but one thing that I remember most of the is support. Whether I challenged the process with developmental models for programs while serving as a graduate assistant or the theoretical framework of Kohlberg and how it influences how I educate and model my work with and for students. Another element has been my process of understanding "us" - this is not about me or what they do but rather what do we and us do. It probably was one of my most challenging learning curves to understand how to effectively collaborate with others without focusing on the potential recognition of the work. Through these times and many others, the faculty, administrators, and colleagues have stood by me for better or for worse.
The Center for Leadership and Civic Education was the mecca of my heart and soul. I found my faith, my love, and my passions through my interactions and collaboration while serving with the team that we affectionately know as The Center. Whether Dr. Mills or Heather Stitely challenging me on how I see fraternity and sorority as a values based movement rather than just social groups or reflecting with Dr. Osteen and Jennifer Dascomb on different personal and professional experiences, I found my home. The smiles, the laughter, the music, and the tears have been a part of me and my growth while working at the Center. Each day I found the strength to commit myself to the fundamental constructs of educating and developing students in a environment that challenges and supports each step they take in their experiences.
When I walked across the stage at my hooding ceremony, tears filled my eyes because I felt that I am prepared to serve as a professional in higher education. Hearing Virginia Byrne reflect on her time at FSU brought the laughter and smiles back while I kept reminding myself that this would be the last time we would all be in one room together. As each member of my cohort moves away or each of the students leave (or graduates), I tell them that I will see them when I see them. I cannot say good bye because it is not the end. Many of the people I have had the pleasure to work or grow with while at FSU will continue with me in the future, whether that be big or small. As Jason Aldean sings, "we will laugh about the old days and catch up on the new." I am proud of what has become me as a student and now as I transition into being a professional. Yeah, there are tears and music to go along with it but I will never forget Florida State and the impact that has been forever made on my heart, mind, and soul. I pray my life serves as a reflection of my work and my education. Let the search for knowledge continue. L&R!
